‘BEN 10s HAVE FLOODED MY DM’ WHY SARAH KABU WANTS TO REMAIN SINGLE AFTER SEPARATION

Bonfire Adventures managing director Sarah Kabu has weighed in on some of the problems that face marriages today. She says as much as ‘slay queens’ pose a threat to marriages by luring people’s husbands into illicit affairs, ‘ben 10s’ are also on the necks of rich married women ready to offer sexual favours in exchange for monetary gains. 

Sarah says that many young men are in her inbox pursuing her because she has money. However, she says because of her upbringing was morals, she has never given in to their demands. “Nowadays the disaster is not even slay queens. We have the Ben 10’s, the young men also. Right now, my inbox is flooding, but why would I raise a grown man by giving him pocket money? For me, I thank God that my mum did not train me to rely on a man. She taught me to work hard to get the good things I may need.” She said.

Advising married women, she says that women should take their time while in courtship to know the personality of their significant other because people don’t change. Additionally, she pointed out that they should work hard to have things of their own instead of relying on marriage for financial gains. She cautioned unmarried women against laying ‘pregnancy traps’ to hunt down married men as it dismantles the holy matrimony.

Disclosing the reason why she decided to quit her marriage now, despite revealing that she has been through pain for over ten years, Sarah noted that she wants to live a better life, and making this decision was hard because of the connection she had with Simon while in the marriage. “I have been unable to leave since January not because of the baby mamas but a lot of things that have built up together. The risky part is that we are friends and partners in business. It’s hard to say goodbye. It’s not a one-off incident. I need now to re-discover myself.”

Sarah has no future marriage plans as she hinted at becoming a single mum because she respected her marriage and was very faithful when she was still with Simon. “Even after separating with him, I think I have been so faithful in the marriage that even when I leave, I would find it awkward to be with someone else.”