MICHELLE NTALAMI ADVISES PEOPLE IN UNFULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES TO LEAVE

Entrepreneur Michelle Ntalami has advised people in unfulfilling relationships to leave.

In a lengthy post on her social media, Ntalami said though it is not easy to leave, they should master strength to make the hard decision, “Sending love to everyone who’s stuck in marriages, relationships, situationships and friendships that are not fulfilling. If you are always unhappy, unsure, there’s constant, deceit, jealousy, betrayal or heartbreak, I am so sorry.

I know it’s not easy to walk away. Neither is it even, to talk to anyone about it in such a society that will be so quick to call you a wimp/ overreacting. We simply don’t talk about this enough. I can never judge anyone for choosing to hold on. I see you and my love goes to you.  But please, master whatever strength you have left, and love yourself enough to choose you. Don’t wait till you are left soulless to leave, literally or figuratively.”

She went on to encourage people in stable relationships to check on their friends, “Walking away it’s not done in one fell swoop decision. It’s many many hurtful acts that will just have you say one day ‘Enough is enough. I choose me’ when that time comes, you will know. Take it a day at a time, with that as your end goal. Until then, I am so proud of you for how gracefully you’ve carried your pain, to date.

PS: To those at peace within their relationships or marriages, please check in on your friends stressed out about theirs. What we lightly term as relationship drama can be so heavy and so hard to share.”