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CECE SAGINI AND VICTOR PEACE ANNOUNCE SPLIT AFTER 4 YEARS OF MARRIAGE
Singer Cece Sagini and her husband Victor Peace have parted ways after four years of marriage. The couple, respectively, made the announcement in a social media post, “After 4+ years of walking this journey as the best of friends, with much prayer and consideration we have decided to come to the end of our road.
As we once shared our journey publicly, it is in the same spirit that we share this statement. Coming to this decision was tough but necessary for our general well-being and holistic happiness. There are no salacious events at the root of our decision. We still cherish our friendship and wish each other the very best.”
In 2017 after getting married, the couple confessed they practised celibacy, “All my life I have been raised the Christian way, sex to me was weird and every time I thought about it, I thought it was sinful and I would feel guilty. I remember with a with a group of friends in high school we even made a pact to abstain until marriage, we even called ourselves PK ‘pastors kids’, I continued abstaining until fourth year in the university, I felt like I was alone and everyone had done it.
I was like what is this that I am actually holding and everyone is telling me guys need to do these things and I did it. Honestly if I were to go back, I will not do it, it felt so bad that I let myself down. I felt empty and I decided to take two years abstaining. I remember when I met Cece I said this one is going to be different, I won’t mess this up.
A lot of times when you get physical it is so easy for a guy lose interest, because you have given up one of the biggest things. You don’t also get the chance to know the person. You are just people who are sexually active but do not know each other, when the real issues come up you can’t with stand it everything just falls apart,” Victor said.
Sharing her story on their YouTube channel, the singer explained that she chose celibacy because of the issues that sexual intercourse caused to her well being and spiritual being, noting that she would get so attached and find herself in wrong situations.”Both of us had already had sex before and I knew the issues it causes to your well being and spiritual being. For me my experience was, I would get so attached and find myself in the wrong situations, it would take so much, people say women we take so much and when you include sex into a relationship you can take a lot including mental abuse apart from physical and you wonder why you are staying there.
Which I did experience something close to that so when I was coming from that to a new relationship, with Victor I said we need to know Christ in depth and I need to understand myself more. You need to figure yourself first before bring someone else so that it does not become a routine in every relationship and you lose so much value as a woman. I did that and by the time I met Victor he was also thinking about celibacy,” she said.
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